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Your videos calm me, Vera. Thank you.

I have a problem of spending too much time on my phone doing a coloring app. It really relaxes me. I'm Autistic and sometimes everything feels so hard. Autistic people need lots of rest after a difficult experience, sometimes it's frustrating how much I need. I often feel guilty for not doing something other than the game. But sometimes it is all I can do. It's hard to figure out how much is ok. We also have a hard time switching tasks and get obsessed with things. It's all so confusing. Do you have any thoughts on this?

Hi Vera, I feel so much pressure of not travelling like everyone else. At where I live everyone travels multiple times a year and has a bucket list of countries they want to go to. All the travel photos on social media, and almost everyone indicated they love travelling on their dating profile. This stresses me out for the longest time. People give me weird looks when I said I haven’t travelled in years and have only been to a few nearby countries. Sometimes I made up excuses to why I did not travel. Covid gave me a break but once restrictions are lifted, I get the same questions from coworkers and friends asking me where had I travelled already, or where I’m planning my next trip. I don’t have any plans! The reasons I am not travelling are firstly cost, I can’t really afford it, other than this, mainly I don’t have a travel bug like everyone else. It’s not that I don’t like to travel but the hassle of planning and booking everything I just don’t have the motivation to do it. I am not good at it. There’s so much preparation just to travel. Work etc. I hope you can make a video that covers this topic if you haven’t already. Thanks! I hope anyone could give me some advice too! This problem has been stressing me for years.

nice you are good at nihongo hope me too😅

Very nice compilation! Thanks! Regarding the question what you do for work in NL, I respectfully disagree. I’ve come across many Dutchies dropping this question at the beginning of an interaction and feels like a job interview. I personally don’t do that and I don’t care if you’re a VP or a janitor to have start a conversation.

Early subscriber here! Nice to see your growth, happiness and success ☺️❤

Im glad i found your channel it helps a lot

*GEKOLONISEERD* 🤪

I have been to fifty countries but my most favorite thing to do is to play chess at Max Euwe plein in Amsterdam on a sunny afternoon with a cup of coffee.

Congratulations, dear Vera! Your success is well deserved! :) <3

Thank you so much just watched your video and it was so helpful

girl, this whole vid was exactly what I needed. ty for all the tips. you're a lovely soul✨💗

Great video, like always! My question would be, why don’t you have a Dutch accent in your videos? You sound American to me lol

Bath mats - as you get older (I am in my 70’s and my husband in his 80’s) bath mats are necessary as we can easily slip. Certainly for younger people mats may not be necessary.

I clicked this video because I’m a fan of Max. 😂 So l’m curious about his amazing character is just his or it’s kind of culture thing. And this video is amazing, it lists all the amazing characters I love in Max. ❤😄

I don’t understand those who get a new phone often. I am currently using my 2019 iPhone 11 Pro, coming up to 5 years old in October. I only purchased to upgrade my iPhone 6s as I wasn’t able to access the photo gallery anymore, regardless of any update/reset l did. I am hoping to get as long as l can out of this phone before getting a new one. I am saving so much money not being on a contract ❤

Wow your Japanese skill is amazing!! (I am Japanese) Lots of love🫶

We even plan and look forward to it "Ik ga lekker niksen" 😊

Just finished a cup of espresso in my coffee cup from the Netherlands!

Wow I'm very impressed with your Japanese

I'm hsp. Not a fan. Appreciate stuff like this

Who came up with this 'Happiness' index?? I'm Irish and I certainly would have no need to have 'Dutch' habits because Dutch people in general are very serious and not very funny - except when they talk especially when they talk in English which is hilarious😅 It's like how Finland ends up as the 'happiest' country in the world!! Finland!! They don't have a sense of humour! They just drink loads of coffee and drink to excess to get through their winters. This video should be shown on a comedy show or as a warning to anyone planning to live there, especially if you're going to get your haircut 😂

This individual is just like a parody of the characters in the movies he's analysing. Best part was his description of a 'mental asylum' in 'A Beautiful Mind' telling us that some have open areas with beds and with rooms off them!! He obviously never set foot in a Mental Health Care Unit because they're certainly not like a 1940s Hollywood movie portrayal. The portrayals - by actors- of the main characters in the films he chose were more to do with getting an Oscar than properly understanding Mental Illness which Hollywood seems to think is ok for actors to portray individuals who are suffering an illness so as to get their name up in lights and hopefully bag themselves an Oscar.

Congrats!!!!

Thanks for this video! I needed to hear all of this and will work on applying your tips.

Do you have a boyfriend??

In regards to the letting go question, I totally agree with what you had to say. I also enjoy donating them and hope that when someone comes across them, they are gaining a treasure in their life. As the saying goes, "one man's trash is another man's treasure!"

I am a direct person, which has gotten me in trouble quite a bit in the US. I would probably not offer my opinion on a hairstyle I don’t like, but if asked, I will give my honest assessment. I consider it like being the little boy who asked why the emperor isn’t wearing any clothes. Some tact is good, but if you give a false impression, the person will think everyone likes their haircut, when too many think it’s better to be nice than honest. Conversely, I want people to be honest with me, as well. Thanks for your video!

its easy, see the ratrace, and step out of it regularly or totally.

Ever tested for autism? ❤

When you mentioned multi cultural as a plus I knew you are a fool.

Have not been able to live clutter free since measles in adult life 1984. Almost expired. Before I was very organized. Getting help.

Hallo, Leuke video's :) Je lipstick shade is heel mooi. Welke is dit?

Gracias , I can relate.

It’s late at night as I am watching this, so I’m not drinking anything. However, if it was earlier in the day, I would probably be drinking unsweetened iced tea. I understand not wanting to travel. Staycations can be the best!

Congratulations!! I am very happy for you -) you are a wonderful person and your videos are great, I was very happy to find them in hard moment of my life. It's been few years, and I am always happy to watch everything from you -)

I WISH my parents would let me relax in the shower. They time me and always listen for whether or not I turn the water off periodically. Makes it SO stressful! Like, leave me alone! I hate it! ;A;

I have a few. I have a very high anxiety disorder so some of the steps that I took is a must for my mental well-being. It is not for everyone but I would like to share anyway. I have blocked and deleted people from my phone (and life) , those who doesn't contribute positivity and happiness. That includes family members. The other ways for me to relax and center myself is to write with my fountain pen and notebook. I just write anything and everything almost daily. I don't want to keep a strict daily schedule because that also can cause stress for me. Most of all, I make sure I get hugs and kisses from husband and children a few times daily. That helps a lot.

Congrats on the subs!! Job well done. I am on the same page with not wanting a huge business out of my channel. I’m not even monetized but once that door opens up, I am more than happy to doing stuff myself without hiring others. I just love the whole thing, filming, editing, being present on the UA-cam platform (networking).

It’s been really profound learning about being an HSP via your experience. It resonates with me so much, especially being an introvert as well. Thank you for living vegan Vera. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💚💚💚💚

Drinking hot cocoa with soy milk 🥰 Congratulations too btw!!🎉

I'm not drinking anything but I am eating a bowl of cherries because it's June and all the summer fruits are coming back to the grocery store! 🍒

Loved this! I grew up in a Dutch community in Iowa. I left as a young adult for the excitement of the big city. When I go home to visit it amazes me how the pace seems so leisurely, yet everything gets done with time left over for friends and family. I love my Dutch heritage. One of our sport team mottos in school is "You ain't much If you ain't Dutch." 😅 The beautiful photos of your country make me homesick for my youth.

This was amazing! Very spot on. Thank you!!

This video is soooooo helpful I learned so much more about myself

Very well done Vera. You work so hard and diligently. I personally think you would make a great filmmaker ❤❤

If you’re scared of heights, how did you get over your fear of flying to go to Japan, etc? I really want to travel to places, but am terrified of being so high up in a plane.

So …people from The Netherlands…or is it Holland…are Dutch?

So glad I found your channel! I'm from the US, but I spent a fantastic summer in Amsterdam back in 1996 and I absolutely loved it. I dream of going back one day.

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